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Sex In The Lion City
Tuesday, June 3, 2008 || 2:07 PM
1/6/2008 (Sunday)
It’s been a long time since I have been writing. So well I am back!! Missed me? Nah I dun think so, anyway recently there was a commotion about this movie called Sex and the City. Starred by Sarah Jessica Parker and many more, hey that’s all I knew about the show. I am not a fan of that movie about I got to tell you, I think I am interested in watching that movie, ya I know that it’s underage. But wat the hell… nobody cares about it. There’s always something called pirated VCD, man! Anyway I creped into my sister room to watch the First Season and "hey wat you know! Blam that show hit me like a tiger wave." How I wish I could be like those gals. You know having a job that they love and have passion for. They have goals in life and live each day to it’s fullest. Four gals hanging out together. Talking about everything that affects their lives. And the best part is they are able to talk about SEX so openly. You know, around my friends SEX is like the four letter word. No, erm how should I put it? It is like the "you know who" in Harry Potter movie. You can’t speak about it, breathe about it or even think about it. It is the taboo word. In our culture sex is rising up to the surface and smack right into our cute, innocence face. Our parents dun even wants to talk to us about it. It is just invisible to them. But Nooooo… When our parents starts to notice that sex is only a word they dun need to worry about because it is the action that they need to start worrying. Then they start to go goo goo gaga over us. Telling us wat to do and wat not to do. Hey F.I.Y we know that long time ago!! Come on man, sex is a self-explored topic. No one teaches you wat to do and wat not to do. You learned it yourself. I mean come on, almost every teenager watches porn, like bees to honey, children in a candy shop? I am not saying that it is bad, you watch it and that’s your problem. Everybody have that right, so just because everybody has that right SEX has become the knowledge that occupies most our brain. Even gals’ watches porn, it is the curiosity that intrigue us to go to that computer and type that simple but yet disturbing sentence. ( I am not going to spell it out for you’ll. ) So now sex has become the trend in our society, having sex is cool and that it puts you in a different region that sets you aside from the rest. Youngsters think that they are very mature since they have sex and the skills to please the opposite sex. Well hello!! Earth to teenagers, earth to teenagers please snap back to reality, having sex ain’t getting you nowhere. In the first place sex shouldn’t be base on something superficial, like I will get more respect if I do that or he will love me more and even worst I am COOL. Please guys technology has not been kind to you, by feeding you all these crappy stuff. Watching porn and doing it is two very separate things. People in porn movies are porn stars; you ain’t a porn star so dun get it all wrong about sex. Teenagers have so many wrong concepts of cool and doing things that is in trend right now. There are many examples like smoking, tattoos (although I must say tattoo is very nice actually if you ask me, well that’s not the point) and worst of all is doing drugs. Doing all these things dun set you aside from the losers and the noobs. Instead you classify yourself by branding the mark "Ah Bengs" and "Ah Lians" on your forehead. Doing all these things dun make you look cool but making yourself become an open book where people take one glance at you and judge you for what you are. Because you are an open book people dun have the interest to "read" you. So basically your teenage life is practically ruin. Coming back to the topic of SEX, just apply the some type of concept I have used from the above examples. Then you will get a clearer picture, I am not saying having sex is totally not good. It could be because of your age or maybe having sex for all the wrong reasons. Age I cannot control it or advise you but reasons I can say.
Firstly, as I have written at the upper part of the passage, you cannot have sex wishing that the other party would give you something in return. For example, A is a guy and you are A’s girlfriend, B. A and B have been going steady for 9 months plus and all of a sudden B heard from one of her girlfriends that having sex with your partner will bring the relationship into another level. The higher level, whatever you called it. Anyway having being an idiot and "blinded" by love, B wanted to share that special something with A. Therefore B planned everything carefully and on the day of their one year anniversary B pops that question to A. And as usual being a guy who by the way happens to be very visual CREATURES (Information given by my BF) , gave in to the "seduction" and agree with B to complete that "special bond". So the rest is history (Meaning they "roll around" in bed) but after a few days of the incident B suddenly realize that A and B’s relationship isn’t improving at all. Instead B felt uneasy and uncomfortable around A. This is because after the incident A felt that B liked it and begin to have "thoughts" about doing it again. So A started to ask for more soon the whole relationship evolves around having sex and the love between them simply vanished, like it never existed before. The worst is yet to come, now B felt dirty and disgusted by wat she is doing because she never though it will turn out this way. She felt that the relationship on longer stands on solid ground and that this "love" is no love at all. Finally B will feel that she has given someone the one thing that really belongs to her and because of a moment of folly she have lost it to someone she dun really love. Now how sad is that?
Secondly having sex because some idiot asked you to or influence by the damn machine, the computer. I dun know about Singaporeans but in America sometimes when a guy turns 16 (sweet sixteen) and on that day a boy "transforms" into a man. So his super sweet friends decided to let him experience his first sex by hiring a hooker or bring him to sex parties. Just to let him have a taste of love…. Ah wat caring and thoughtful friends to have. Nah wrong, these friends are the worst sorts of friends you could ever have in your lifetime. Hey remember that you are the one getting AIDS sleeping around with women not them. All they can say " hey bro, look I am really very sorry for it man." And the world goes round, people waking up early in the morning to get ready for work; the sun still rises and sets as usual. Nothing changes because it all boils down to you and your choice. No one is a victim when it comes to decision- making. You have a choice and you made it so you have to live with it and BLAME no one. Many things can happen overnight or worst in an instant. It's the same thing that applies to sex. You dun do it because you have to! For Christ sake you are not a chimp or any other animals trying to spread your seeds into as many females you can to ensure your survival! You are also not a dog that goes humping on every lamppost, got it? Think before you do anything stupid especially in our age (16 to adulthood). Even sex sometimes means something to guys (well not every guy but certain guys who dun have a character and attitude of a scumbag). Some guys really put their heart and soul into a relationship while sex is basically something to spice the relationship and nothing more.
